The Facebook for Kinky People

So basically i’ve been spending a lot of time on fetlife. The groups there teach me a lot, but i don’t like really quoting the threads, because people on there are really private, and let’s face it, so am i. One of the interesting things about fetlife is the fetish lists of the members. Basically, on facebook there’s a ‘like’ button for things one would agree on or what one generally likes. Actually, it used to be a fan button, but they changed it to like. This was kinda funny in and of itself… my roommate turned to me and said “facebook made fan pages like pages” “yeah right…” “Now 3 of my friends ‘like it rough'” “….. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.” Or something like that. Anyhow, so there are like pages on facebook, and the rough equivalent of those on fetlife are fetishes. A good example for geeky people is ‘pan-galactic gargle blasters’ which is a fetish with 30 people into it or curious about it. This is a drink from the Hitch-hiker’s guide to the galaxy that the president of the galaxy created. Supposedly it’s the best drink ever created. Regardless, it’s still a nerdy book tribute that i doubt seriously turns anyone on. There are also serious fetishes that i don’t see too often (maybe i’m not looking in the right places?) that i absolutely added to my list. Stuff that, though it isn’t really an act, it’s still seriously something that turns me on.

a brilliant mind, a creative player and imaginative lover.

Basically, if my lover is extremely smart, He turns me on more than anything else. Even with just conversation. The creativity and imagination turn me on because of course it means that He’s thinking about it ahead-of-time. Honestly, i think about sex A LOT and it turns me on when my lover thinks about it enough to be able to think of something creative or imaginative to try out.

affection and touch from the one i am with

Literally with one touch, i can be calmed down from a sobbing mess. i am absolutely someone who loves being touched, held, kissed… It’s something i crave. A quick fix is good, but when i think about this fetish i’m thinking cuddling in bed, held tightly in His arms, nuzzling my face against His chest.

being called ‘slut’ by someone who i adore

This is hot. And i have no idea why.

gentlemen who are not necessarily gentle men

When i think about this, i’m thinking about a nice night out, maybe at dinner, where He is so sweet and W/we have a great time… Then as soon as W/we get home, He throws me against the wall and kisses me passionately, His hand roughly grabbing my breast, setting the mood for the rest of the night. Yum.

getting turned on by rigorous intellectual debate

It has happened before. Just saying.

her moaning into our kiss as i finger her

It really turns me on to moan into a kiss. i haven’t been able to do it much, due to having boyfriends who did not enjoy kissing, but every time it happened it felt so intimate and sexy. i love it.

thinking of fucking while i’m supposed to be working

It’s fun. What more is there to say ? Except that thinking about sex means that later on i am very very horny : )

seeing how far i can go before i get the look and tone that turns me to jelly

One of these days i’d love to see the Dominant ‘look’ that this talks about. It’s under my ‘i’m curious about’ because i haven’t yet, but oh my god do i want to. So badly.

wrists held by man’s hands

i absolutely love being overpowered, and have only really gotten to play around with that once, maybe twice. Both were on my command. Not that fun, really. It has to be a lot more fun with someone who gets a charge out of overpowering His partner. : )

So those are some of the less common fetishes i find. There are the straight ones like oral sex or talking dirty and those are great, too, but i really love the ones that say just a little more about the person. Just my two cents. : )

Sorry about not writing lately, i just finished my final final yesterday : ) so i hung out and relaxed all day today, and tomorrow i move out ! Hopefully i’ll have the energy tomorrow to post again, but i’m thinking more along the lines of Sunday. Sorry ! : ( If there’s anything Y/you would like me to write about, please comment on this post and i’ll seriously consider it. i won’t say i’ll do it, because i can just see someone saying something silly about ‘research me!’ or something as a joke, and because i promised, i would have to do it. So therefore, i hold veto power ! 😛


Sources: (Pan-galactic gargle blasters fetish) (What is a pan-galactic Gargle blaster?) (Galileo by The Indigo Girls, which is what i listened to the whole time i was writing this)

PS: When one googles ‘Dominant look,’ this is on the first page of images.